Frustrations you took out on Patrick.
You have a free place to stay. Why would you move? You could move, even after paying off all the debt with your share of the equity. There’s nothing stopping you from going and renting your own place or even saving for what? 2-3 months? And buying another place somewhere else. Financially, I honestly don’t know if you should feel guilty about, but here’s why I’m mad. And I’m honestly saying to you now, I don’t know if it’s warranted or not, but it makes me angry and there’s nothing I can do about it. I had 7-8k saved up from past income tax returns, I used that to move here. I had a little over 10k in my 401k, everything I had, I know it’s not much, but it all went into the remodel of this house we’re about to sell. And all of that was so that I could be with you. And now look where I am. Worse off in every single way then the day before I moved to be here. You’re going to be fine and successful and not struggle at all. All I wanted from you was some sort of recognition or better treatment for sacrificing everything that I did for you. What I did by moving to MI was a sacrifice. You choosing to live with 7 other people is not a sacrifice, it makes no difference to you whatsoever. You might even enjoy it because it allows you to save. I’m mad because I feel like I’m always trying to do the right thing, the good thing and it never pays off. And I can’t blame you. Like I’ve said a few times, I can only blame me. And it fucking sucks